If the two people are touching, then there is force, however minimal, between them. The force between them, as measured at the point of contact, is equal and opposite for the two people regardless if one is trying to move away (“pulling”) and the other is moving towards (“pushing”). The person moving forward (“pushing”) will increase the magnitude of the force at the point of contact if the other’s retreat (“pulling”) does not match the advance. Likewise, the person retreating (“pulling”) will decrease the magnitude of the force at the point of contact if they move away faster than the other person advances. If the advance and the retreat exactly match each other, then the equal and opposite force measured at the point of contact will stay at the same magnitude.
This is why you see changes in magnitude on the graph as the people in the video push each other. But the magnitudes of the positive and negative forces remain equal and opposite at the point of contact (being measured by the two force meters) regardless of whether one person is moving backward and the other person is moving forward.
However, regardless of the magnitude of the force, and regardless of whether one person is advancing and the other is retreating, the force at the point of contact will always be equal and opposite. If both are advancing, the magnitude of the force will increase, but the force measured at the point of contact will remain equal and opposite. If the person advancing has more mass and/or more acceleration (F=ma), then the position of the point of contact will change and the magnitude of the force will increase, but the force measured at the point of contact will remain equal and opposite, as measured at the point of contact, throughout this change.
Equal and opposite means both people experience the same magnitude of force, it does not mean that the magnitude of the force never changes. Equal magnitude of force would mean that the graph would show straight lines without the increases or decreases shown in the video.
Perhaps you are misinterpreting the phrase “equal and opposite?”
How about this: the force that the two people express towards the point of contact will usually be different (e.g., it will not record a straight line when measured with the force meters as used in the video), but the result at the point of contact will be equal and opposite (the amount that the lines on the graph vary from each other will be equal and opposite)?
If the two people are touching, then Newton’s Third Law applies when measuring the force at the point of contact. One person could be unconscious and it would still apply. On person could be on ice or be wearing roller skates and it would still apply. The people could be in outer space, and it would still apply.
ChiDragon wrote:As soon one issue jin, then the other will feel the amount of strength of the jin by ting jin.
Newton’s Law shows that BOTH would feel the amount of strength of the jin equally. If you use the same jin force against an unmoving wall instead of against another person, then you would realize that the issuer experiences the same force returning to them as they are expressing.
It is the same magnitude of force being felt through tingjin for both participants.